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Amber Tamblyn Writes Open Letter to James Woods: ‘You Can Change’

Amber Tamblyn and James Wood
Amber Tamblyn and James WoodAstrid Stawiarz/Getty Images; J. Countess/WireImage

She won’t be silenced. After actor James Woods denied ever trying to pick up Amber Tamblyn when she was only 16 years old, The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants actress is fighting back.

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Tambyln, 34, penned an open letter in response to his denial detailing her encounter with Woods, 70, to Teen Vogue on Wednesday, September 13. “Dear Mr. Woods,” she wrote. “What you are experiencing is called a teachable moment. It is called a gift. It is called a humbling. It is called Jesus, I come to thee. It is called an awakening. It is called a growth edge. It is called hope. The hope being that through this experience, you can change. You can redefine the man who will come after this moment and this man who came before. Since you’ve now called me a liar, I will now call you a silencer. I see your gaslight and now will raise you a scorched earth.”

She then alleged he tried to convince her to join him on a trip to Vegas, even though she was only a teenager.

“My friend Billy and I were at the Roxy on Sunset Boulevard seeing a band we loved,” she continued. “We decided to go to Mel’s diner on Sunset Boulevard in Hollywood to get burgers after. I had just gotten my driver’s license and very specifically remember my nervousness trying to park in the diner parking lot. Upon leaving the restaurant we were stopped by you and your friend, who both seemed very nice. At one point you suggested we should all go to Las Vegas together. ‘It’s such a great place, have you ever been?’ You tried to make it sound innocent. This is something predatory men like to do, I’ve noticed. Make it sound innocent. Just a dollop of insinuation. Just a hair of persuasion. Just a pinch of suggestion. ‘It will be so much fun, I promise you. Nothing has to happen, we will just have a good time together.’ I told you my age, kindly and with no judgment or aggression. I told you my age because I thought you would be immediately horrified and take back your offer. You laughed and said, ‘Even better. We’ll have so much fun, I promise.’”

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Tamblyn points out that Woods wouldn’t have recognized her at the time because she wasn’t famous yet. “Here’s the thing, Mr. Woods. At that time I was not a public persona,” she explained. “I had done a couple years on a soap opera as an actress, but you wouldn’t know me from Adam. I’m sure you’ve racked your brain trying to remember how you could’ve possibly hit on the actress Amber Tamblyn at a diner almost two decades ago. You think, it’s not possible, there’s no way I would’ve been so stupid as to hit on a 16-year-old known actress. But I wasn’t known then, James. I was just a girl. And I’m going to wager that there have been many girls who were just girls or women who were just women who you’ve done this to because you can get away with it.”

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“The saddest part of this story doesn’t even concern me but concerns the universal woman’s story,” Tamblyn concluded. “The nation’s harmful narrative of disbelieving women first, above all else. Asking them to first corroborate or first give proof or first make sure we’re not misremembering or first consider the consequences of speaking out or first let men give their side or first just let your sanity come last. So it is with hope, Mr. Woods, that I ask you to go inward now and ask yourself the hard stuff. The ominous unconscious stuff. The archetypal masculinity stuff. The power-play stuff. The perversion persuasion stuff. The secretive stuff. The id’s most cherished stuff. Only you and your darkness know who you are. Only you and your actions know what you’ve done. That means you and only you have the power to change your behavior. Are you and your history with women and girls a part of the problem, Mr. Woods? Go now and look in the mirror and ask yourself if this is true. Go on, I’ll wait. But I won’t hold my breath.”

The feud originally began when Woods criticized Armie Hammer’s latest movie Call Me By Your Name for an age gap between two male lovers. Hammer then responded, “Didn’t you date a 19 year old when you were 60…….?” prompting Tamblyn to share her own story via Twitter as well. 

Since then, she’s received support from Girls star Lena Dunham and House of Lies actor Don Cheadle, the latter of whom tweeted, “Creepy old dudes who didn’t think she’d repeat the story, for $400, please, Alex…”

Woods has not yet responded to Tamblyn’s open letter.

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